Male Sexual Energy Retreat
Multi-Orgasmic Practices for Male Bodies
January 9-15, 2027 in Zipolite, Mexico
Ready to reclaim your vitality?
The path to vibrant health and a better sex life starts with skill with your own sexual energy. This means building the vitality that is your birthright, opening wide the inner pathways of your sexual energy, and releasing the fear, anxiety, and shame that blocks flow and feeling. Join us for this transformational week for men.
“Steve’s sessions were powerful preparations for each day for the men in my Love’s Embodiment retreat.”
— Joseph Kramer, Founder of Body Electric
About Steve
Steve has taught qigong, Taoist men’s vitality practices, and Tantra for over twenty years. He is a senior instructor in Healing Tao and currently serves on Mantak Chia’s Council of Nine advisors for Universal Healing Tao. Steve also has 30 years experience in martial arts, and has done extensive personal work in other traditions including ISTA, plant medicine, and shamanic de-armoring.
Steve in Zipolite, last January
My Journey
In my teenage years, I learned a very limited view of sex.
That sex was all about orgasm and ejaculation.
That sex is about proving yourself.
That pleasure outside of orgasm is incidental.
As a result, I programmed myself to focus on the orgasm, so that sex was a race to the finish line. My body learned to settle for less pleasure and premature ejaculation.
When I started learning the practices to becoming multi-orgasmic, I realized it involved more than just book learning; it meant teaching my body a new sexual response and lots of practice. (in this skill, practice is fun!)
I learned how to open my inner pathways, so that sexual energy did not simply build up in my penis but flowed throughout and nourished my whole body.
I learned to expand my capacity to hold more pleasure.
And I learned whole-body orgasms that do not need to include ejaculation, so that I can continue love-making and reach even higher levels of pleasure and intimacy.
And most profoundly, these practices unblocked my health and vitality. In the past, I had unknowingly blocked and spent so much of my life force as a defense against past trauma, fear, shame, attempts to please, and inner conflict, that I was only operating at a fraction of my potential. Now I feel reborn, full of vitality, and with a deeply fulfilling sex life.
You too can shift your vitality and sex life into high gear! In this retreat, you will learn the key Taoist, Tantric, and shamanic practices that worked for me and countless other men over a thousand years.
“Steven was an amazing teacher. He taught practices and an approach that allowed me to cultivate a better relationship with my own sexual and creative energy. I look forward to working with him again!"
— Mileen Patel, Programming Director of The Sacred Science
About Zipolite, Mexico
The Retreat will be held in the warm and nudist beach town of Zipolite, Mexico. It has the only legal nude beach in Mexico and overall has a special, relaxed, hippie-legacy vibe that will charm you. The town is full of nudist hotels, fantastic, affordable restaurants, and local artisans. It is also a huge gay destination for our GBQ participants. You will love Zipolite!
”The Inner Alchemy practices that Steve taught me have enriched my life many times over. The practices continue to ground me, enhance my spiritual awakening and growth, and renew my vitality. What a gift!”
- Bob D.
What to expect
Daily wakeup with stretching and qigong vitality practices.
Daily instructional sessions of core Taoist sexual and inner alchemy practices.
Beautiful weather, stunning views, and delicious meals.
A supportive brotherhood of fellow cultivators.
Plenty of leisure time to enjoy Zipolite and rest.
What you’ll take home
Ability to last longer and go deeper in sex.
Daily practices for better health and sexual vitality.
A more grounded ‘you’ who feels more at ease and can connect more authentically to partners.
A supportive brotherhood of men you can return to.
What you will learn
In this workshop, you will learn the chi-kung and sexual kung fu practices, as popularized by Mantak Chia and Michael Winn. When done regularly, these practices will shift your health into high gear.
Cool and Hot Draw: Practices to circulate your sexual energy throughout your body, not just your cock.
Microcosmic Orbit: Opening the energetic pathways in your body wider, to allow for freer flow of energy.
Emotional Alchemy: Breathing, movement, and meditations for clearing the fear, anger, anxiety, and feelings of unworthiness that block our full feeling.
Grounding: Practices to help you hold more arousal, stave off premature ejaculation, and get out of 'performance' mode.
Bone Breathing: Practices for increasing your stores of sexual energy and strengthening your immune system.
Semen retention: Build capacity for orgasm without ejaculation.
Straight, Gay, Bi, and Queer Penis-Havers all welcome
This is a brave space for all people with penises, of any sexuality to learn to work with their own energy. While this work can be very stimulating, there will be no sexual touch of any kind between participants during workshop sessions.
The Details
There is limited space. Please register by August 15, 2026 to get a 20% discount and reserve your place at this powerful, life-changing retreat. We hope you’ll say yes!
Dates: January 9-15, 2027
Housing: Double-occupancy rooms with your own bed; all linens provided. Clean shared bathrooms with open air views, flush toilets, and hot showers.
Meals: Two nourishing meals per day included. We will do our best to accommodate special dietary needs. (E.g. vegetarian, gluten-free, and/or daily-free).
Venue: Pachalegria Retreat Center <https://pachalegria.com/en/>: A beautiful, brand new retreat center, with wifi, owned by a gay couple.
Travel: You arrange to fly into Huatulco International Airport; there are direct flights from both Dallas-Fort Worth Airport and Mexico City. From Huatulco, you catch a cab to Zipolite.
Cost: $2,190; Save 20% if you register before August 15th, 2026
Participation: Minimum 14 men, maximum 22
Intention: Ignite your health and sexual vitality